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  I have a few problems with Buddy Williard, and all of them are demonstrated nicely on the ski trip he takes with Esther. To start with, Esther clearly didn't want to go skiing, but he went to great pains to make sure the trip stayed on. "His persistence in the face of mulishness" could be seen as sweet, but really, if it's obvious your girlfriend doesn't want to do something, don't force her. Especially if it's a somewhat dangerous activity. Buddy's "persistance" is also shown when he persuades her to try the rope tow even though she protests. While Esther admits that she doesn't explicitly say no, it's concerning that Buddy is either unable to notice her fear and discomfort, or notices and doesn't care.  But the worst part happened after Esther's terrific crash. While she lays there, mouth full of snow, Buddy encourages her and checks her for injury. So far so good, how very caring of him. But then when Esther says she want...

I have a few problems with Buddy Williard, and all of them are demonstrated nicely on the ski trip he takes with Esther. To start with, Esther clearly didn't want to go skiing, but he went to great pains to make sure the trip stayed on. "His persistence in the face of mulishness" could be seen as sweet, but really, if it's obvious your girlfriend doesn't want to do something, don't force her. Especially if it's a somewhat dangerous activity. Buddy's "persistance" is also shown when he persuades her to try the rope tow even though she protests. While Esther admits that she doesn't explicitly say no, it's concerning that Buddy is either unable to notice her fear and discomfort, or notices and doesn't care.  But the worst part happened after Esther's terrific crash. While she lays there, mouth full of snow, Buddy encourages her and checks her for injury. So far so good, how very caring of him. But then when Esther says she wants ...